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Our main goal this week has been to continue to with meet with different professionals in this world of eating disorders, and we have had nothing but a thumbs up and a, "Great idea!" from everyone. We are greatly encouraged by these meetings! Trying to get everyone in the Upstate on board with a brand new idea is no small task, but we will continue to work at this till we see this project off the ground!
We did indeed open three days this week due to the Airbnb we have chosen for the month of February giving us such an amazing deal for the three days she had available. We were very grateful to be able to continue support for our client that has been with us from the beginning.
Due to the government shut down, we believe our 501 (c)(3) status has been delayed....probably literally left all by itself, sitting in a pile of accumulating requests. That reality is a little bit sad for us. Going to the mail box every day with spirits high that today might be the day that we get our letter, and then dashed when there is no mail for Hope Recovery Kitchen.
So we have the month of February to really get our feet off the ground....it will be a very trying month as we wait patiently for things to move along. We need more clients, monthly support, and for our grant to come in for us so that when this month ends we can move into the permanent location we are still dreaming over in Greer. Please make all these things a matter of prayer for us. What happens if we do not get any of these three things? .....let's not think about that when the month is just starting.....a lot can happen in 30 days.
Stay tuned for next week's update....
Our third week ended a day early. We are grateful for all who came and participated in our kitchen these last 3 days. We had clients, support group, and a large meeting of women who are very interested in bringing more awareness to the upstate about the great needs here in this world of eating disorders. Donata and I are tired but thankful for everything that happened this week. We learned so much in these past three weeks and are so glad that we were able to help people all while doing something we love.
My own personal lesson this month has been patience. This has been a seriously hard thing for me, but I have no choice but to learn it or be frustrated. So I am choosing to own it. A little patience can go a long way!
On a more serious note...and one that is difficult for us to bring up... We have learned this month that we can not do this alone. We need help from those that are interested in partnering with us to continue this work. Our needs are not great but they are needs, and every little bit that people contribute goes a long way with us. Would you please consider helping us by committing to donating to our work of love, monthly. Already a few have come and told us that they want to support us monthly and this has done wonders for us already. Feeling like people really care about what we are doing boost us up, helps us to continue on. If you are able, $5, $10, $25 or more a month, helps us to help others. Would you consider joining us? By going to our main home page you will see a donate button. There, in that box, it will give you another smaller box with the option to support us monthly. We need our family and our friends to help us keep this going. Please do consider seriously supporting us in this way. We will continue to keep you updated as much as we possibly can. If we knew people believed in our work this much, and were willing to monthly contribute.......it really would be a huge encouragement to us and to those we are helping along in their recovery.
So...whew! What an exciting 4 days that was! We had a total of 5 people who ate a meal with us, and we met several new people! We had meetings with people who are plugged into this community of eating disorders here in Greenville, such as therapists and dietitians. Overall, we were very encouraged.
Next week we already have some people lined up for meals and we are grateful for this. The Lord is bringing people in and the community is growing quickly.
If there is anything we learned last week, it is this...This is a need here in Greenville, SC and in other cities as well. Meal support, learning how to cook a meal, and eating with people is going to be very helpful for even people who have had eating disorders in the past and are just looking for a place to land when they have no one else to eat with.
If you have any questions, please feel free to ask....I will do my best to answer. My head and heart are very full and it is just about near impossible to blog about all of it and every single detail, but I wanted to let you all know that it was definitely a very profitable week!
I know you all are eager to hear about how the first day went....
Donata and I came away from our first day feeling very encouraged and excited! We had two people stop by and that was such a good feeling meeting two people. The rest of this week we have different people coming in at different times. Some are meetings and some are clients. Its going to be a great first week! Again, thanking the Lord for a place to meet!
Our first board meeting happened in the evening and went for two hours but was extremely profitable for us. Personally, I was just shaking with excitement about getting an opportunity to tell our board all that we have been working on for weeks now. The feedback we got was that we really do seem to have our "solid footing to our plans." They had many more very helpful suggestions for us as well. Overall, a very, very positive start to this kitchen.
As I mentioned before we have some very important meetings coming up and in the next two weeks and would appreciate prayers that His will be accomplished!
I prob will wait a while to write another blog as we are very busy, but I will do my best to update everyone as soon as can.
Recently, I was asked what is my passion behind the starting up the kitchen, and this was my response...
My passion for the Hope Recovery Kitchen came about when I saw so many people getting turned away from treatment and the support they desperately needed because of cost or lack of insurance coverage. This made me sad and I thought, if only there was a place here in Greenville where people could gather and eat meals together and grow a community where they can support each other. I feel strongly about speaking out and helping where and when I am able. I still battle anorexia and have been for several years but I believe I am closer to the end than I have ever been before and now I want to see this kitchen started. I have gathered a friend to me, that has helped me so much in this journey. My friend, Donata used to let me come to her home whenever I needed to and let me eat meals with her and her family. This helped me so much overcome my fear of food and with the redeeming. Her support was a key factor in my recovery. I wish to see this taken to a bigger scale and we know we can’t do it alone, but with Christ, this is possible. Helping others with eating disorders is my passion. I want for everyone to get the help I got. I’m not going to recover and then go silent about it. I want to finalize my own recovery journey here at the Hope Recovery Kitchen, by encouraging others that are still behind me to press on to the finish line. I promise, it does get easier!
Donata’s response was as follows...
I’m a mom of three grown children, I was trained as an RN in my home country of Switzerland.
For the past 20 years I’ve been helping people from different backgrounds who have been battling an eating disorder. In doing so I’ve noticed a lack of meal support outside of treatment centers. On numerous times I’ve successfully offered meal support to some of my friends with ED, and I would love to offer this kind of help to larger groups of people.
IT'S A NEW YEAR!!! Hello 2019 and what learning opportunities there will be in store for us this year? We have hit the new year with our heads in the game and seeking out every opportunity we can snatch up.
Grant news: We will be very soon submitting a very important grant as soon as it is approved! The holidays did play a role in slowing this down, but we are very excited to see what will happen once submitted.
Soft opening: So far we have only 2 people who are looking for help immediately but there are 5 other people considering joining us still. We would love to fill up our spots for this opening because we really want to get right in and see what the program feels like....sort of try it on for size. :) We are excited and nervous!
Another opportunity: I have come across individuals who would like this kind of help but can not afford to pay for all of it at this time and I wanted to put it out there that if you would like to donate to a fund that we will start for individuals who are serious about their recovery, and support someone, we will do that. $20 will give someone 1 day with us and ideally they could stay with us for 2 weeks (8 days). If you wished to donate toward someone in particular, just add that into your notes when you donate and we will be sure that money is set aside for someone who needs this support.
Donations: They are still coming in and people are telling us whether they want them to go toward our new puppy or to the kitchen in general. This is very helpful for us so please don't hesitate to let us know. The needs are still great!
Puppy: We were accepted by the Crocketdoodles to receive a puppy! We are very thankful. The deposit has been made and now we wait for a puppy to become available.
To all who have already given to us we send a huge THANK YOU TO YOU!!! Please help us by spreading the word and letting others know on social media that we are here.